Top Sex Secrets From A Work Of Grace

Sometimes, we all need a little ‘pick me up’ in the bedroom.  Something that will help fuel the flames, get the blood flowing, and get us ‘in the mood’.  Especially since that ‘mood’ doesn’t always suddenly appear.  And let’s face it, there are seasons in life when that the only action our bedroom sees is us kicking our hubbies in the middle of the night when he starts snoring.  **I’m not the only one who does that, right??  So, here are some of my favorite resources to help fire up the bedroom with my Top Sex Secrets From A Work Of Grace.

It is easy to fall into a rut when it comes to bedroom activities. But it’s also easy to get out of with the right ‘tools’! Here are my Top Sex Secrets From A Work Of Grace. BTW – life is short…be purposeful in having fun with your hubby:0


No, these are not scandalous websites.  Just a few ladies I know who regularly offer support for wives in the bedroom. Read More

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Fad Diets: What Didn’t Work…And What Did

I just stared at him as though he asked me to pick up his underwear from the dry cleaners.  His request was utterly ridiculous.  Past attempts to solve the problem never worked, why would it be different this time?  However, I knew he would not accept any excuse from me, his excitement and eagerness would subdue my negativity.  Begrudgingly, I gave in.  I would faithfully try this new product that promised to help me lose weight.  But I wouldn’t get my hopes up that I’d see results.  Not this time.  

Have you tried a bunch of diet plans, potions and pills with no results? Yeah, me, too. It is so frustrating! Here I share what did not work for me...and what finally did! Fad Diets: What Didn't Work...And What Did.

Before I share with you the things I’ve done that didn’t work and things that did work, I want to share a bit about why it has been so difficult for me to lose weight.  I was diagnosed with hypothyroid in 2004 and despite regular exercise, I never lost pounds – only gained.  It got to the point where I just stopped my monthly measurements at Curves because there was never any change.  Discouragement just filled my heart, so there wasn’t any point.  Over the years, the number on the scale would keep inching up, bringing even more dismay to my troubled heart.  I had to shift my focus on the idea of caring for my body as the temple of God and not on losing weight. Read More

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6 MORE Amazingly Simple Changes For Better Health

Making big changes to diet and lifestyle can be daunting and overwhelming for many of us.  Especially if positive results aren’t seen physically or felt mentally/emotionally soon afterward.  Last week, I shared 6 extremely simple changes our family has made in order to be healthier.  Today, I want to share 6 MORE Amazingly Simple Changes For Better Health.

I am sharing a few more easy way to get healthier this fall. 6 MORE Amazingly Simple Changes For Better Health

Shake It Off

My husband and I have been enjoying a shake for breakfast every morning.  I used to struggle with making time to eat a good breakfast and often I would just not have anything to eat, which is NOT a healthy habit to get into nor was it a good thing to model to my children!  Breakfast was always the most difficult meal of the day for me to enjoy because as soon as I was up, I’d get busy with work and homeschooling the kids.  I didn’t want to make the time to spend 15-20 minutes preparing breakfast for myself.  Read More

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6 Amazingly Simple Changes For Better Health

If you are like me, you don’t want to make a bunch of huge changes to your diet in order to get healthier.  I’ve tried some bigger changes, which I will share more about next week, but for the most part, those massive changes were not helpful and it was quite difficult to stick with those changes.  I have learned over the years that smaller changes are easier to make and continue on with.  And they have made a difference!  

Change is never easy, especially if the modification is big. It can seem overwhelming ad daunting to tackle those kinds of changes. So I have shared some of the simple and small changes our family has made to get healthier. Here are my 6 Amazingly Simple Changes For Better Health

Portion Control

I used to eat A LOT.  And quite honestly, I was proud of the amount of food I could eat.  In my early adulthood, my 5′ 3″ frame weighed only about 112 pounds.  I was small – and it would impress people with the portion sizes I could manage.  There was a local pub that had a colossal steak that if you could eat all of it, they would not charge you for it.  Although I did not attempt this challenge, I was told several times that I would easily be able to do it!  

I had a problem with portion control and I’ve had to purposefully put less food on my plate.  This is extra hard when Marcus cooks up one of his steaks!  But I have gotten a lot better.

Eat Just Enough

I also used to eat and eat until I was completely stuffed.  Walking and moving around became difficult when I had that much to eat!  I have learned to pay attention to my body’s signals and I stop eating when I am satisfied.  Portion control also helps with this problem.

Keep It Fresh

Serve fresh veggies for lunch and dinner.  Our family enjoys grape tomatoes, carrots, cucumbers, broccoli…and various other fresh, raw vegetables during meal time.  We will occasionally cook vegetables like corn, asparagus or potatoes – or put veggies in a stir-fry, but for the most part, our veggies are enjoyed raw.  The kids all prefer them raw and they are so much easier to prepare!  We wash and cut a bunch and keep them in a container in the fridge, making it quick to pull out for meals (or snacks).  

Be A Master Home Cook

Make your own meals at home.  I am so very blessed to have a husband who loves to cook and since he works from home, we have the luxury of good, home cooked meals every day.  He has taken the time to perfect his skills and he likes to add a lot of great flavor to dishes.  

When you have delicious, home-cooked meals, you will less likely to go out to eat.  I understand that this can be more challenging if both husband and wife work outside the home, but with some planning and a bit of work, eating home-cooked meals can happen.  

Preparing a huge batch of frozen meals is a great way to get home-cooked meals on your table.  I have used most of the recipes in the cookbook “The Big Cook” for my frozen meals.  The “Don’t Panic, Dinner’s in the Freezer” books also have fantastic recipes for the freezer.  Loony Spoons is just another one of my favorite cookbooks.






So, try freezer meals, they are great!

If You Must Eat Out

About a year ago, I made a quick stop at McDonald’s for one of their new chicken burgers.  I was hungry and I knew it would be a while before I got home.  I needed something to eat.  So, I foolishly pulled into the drive-thru.  I knew with my first bite that I was going to seriously regret buying the flavorless sandwich.  I did not enjoy it one bit.  What a waste – of both money and calories!  I wished I had waited a bit longer and got something at home.  This is what happens, though, when you have mouth-watering meals at home – most other food tastes boring.

My husband and I have learned that if we are going to have something to eat out of the home, then it has to be absolutely scrumptious.  No more lousy food that makes me want to barf.  Seriously.  I wanted to rid my body of the fast food burger that tasted horribly!  If we are going to get something not cooked at home, it’s going to be worth every penny and worth every calorie!  And those restaurants are hard to find;)

Fry It!

My hubby has been using the T-fal ActiFry appliance for cooking potatoes, chicken wings and button ribs.  For our potatoes, he cuts them into chunks, tosses them in a little bit of olive oil.  He adds various spices and herbs and then ‘fries’ them in the fryer.  Chicken wings are just as easy with a bit of oil, salt and pepper.  And then there are button ribs.  Oh, boy!  If you have never had button ribs, you are missing out!  My hubby puts fresh lemon juice and pink Himalayan salt (healthier salt!) on his ribs and they are so good!  The T-fal ActiFry uses less oil for cooking and it is so easy to use.  Saves times as well.

I have 6 more simple changes you can make in your diet in order to eat healthier that I will share next week.  Do you have any simple changes that you can add to my list?

Change is never easy, especially if the modification is big. It can seem overwhelming ad daunting to tackle those kinds of changes. So I have shared some of the simple and small changes our family has made to get healthier. Here are my 6 Amazingly Simple Changes For Better Health

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22 Awesome Christian Songs For The Epic Workout Playlist

It had a great beat as the tune pumped through my earbuds, encouraging my body to move faster.  Oh, yeah!  Nothing like a great song to keep me going!  Sometimes we need just the right the songs for a strong workout, don’t we?  There are several Christian artists making terrific music that I love having on my playlist.  Their music is fast-paced and motivating.  Here are my MORE THAN 22 Awesome Christian Songs For The Epic Workout Playlist.

Are you looking for some songs to inspire you in your workout? Songs that will help get you moving both physically and spiritually? Here are over 22 Awesome Christian Songs For The Epic Workout Playlist. Updated from 2017!

Get Back Up by TobyMac – sometimes we just need to get back up during our workout!

Oxygen by Lincoln Brewster – OK, I think Lincoln is one of the extremely few artists who truly appreciates a ‘wicked’ guitar solo!  I think he has one in every song!

Through Your Eyes by Britt Nicole – this is her newly released single.  I love it!  Why not meditate on how God sees us instead of how the magazines say we ought to look.  Good reminder as we workout!

Praise Like Fireworks by Rend Collective Experiment.  Exercise is a great time to spend praising God…and sometimes my routine makes my body feel like fireworks – OUCH!

Alive by Hillsong Young And Free – oh, yeah!  I feel ALIVE when I commit to exercising regularly!

Wake by Hillsong Young & Free ft Taya Smith – nothing like a morning workout to wake you up!

God Is On The Move by 7eventh Time Down – I think we need a bit of rock mixed in here.

Ready Or Not by Britt Nicole – ready or not…just do it!

Restart by Newsboys – sometimes we need a ‘restart’ in our fitness and health journey!

Ready Set Go by Royal Tailor – kind of goes with ‘ready or not’!   

Thank God for Something by Hawk Nelson – yes, I am sure you can find something to thank God for as you finish off those crunches!

This is Living by Hillsong Young & Free – if it hurts, you are living;)  Just a reminder, girlfriend!

Sold Out by Hawk Nelson – be sold out for Jesus and your exercise routine.

Remain by Royal Tailor – there will be times when we don’t have the energy to work through an entire program…but one thing will remain and that is our Lord – He loves you!!  

Gold by Britt Nicole – Never forget, you are GOLD!

You Are by Colton Dixon – I just love this song!  Glorifying God for who He is!

Shake Heaven by Montell Jordan and Beckah Shae – might as well shake heaven with those awesome jazzercise moves!

The One I’m Running To by 7eventh Time Down – keep your eye on the prize!  Run to Him!

Made New by Lincoln Brewster – it’s time for another guitar solo.

Faithful by Steve Fee – He is faithful…even helping us get through a tough workout!

Ever Lifting by Christy Nockels – when the workout gets tough, we need Him to lift us up!

The River by Jordan Feliz – warning…this one might make you thirsty!  Remember to drink your water!

2017 Additions!

I need to update this post with some of my favorite workout songs for 2017:

The Comeback by Danny Gokey – we all need a comeback at some point.

Bleed the Same by Mandisa – this song came from a heart broken over all of the fighting that was going on this year.

Happy Dance by MercyMe – well, this one might make you want to dance instead of workout…but that’s ok.

Lifer by MercyMe – I know, another MercyMe song.  But this is a great one for a workout.

Word of Life by Jeremy Camp – I love how this is taken out of John 6 where Peter says to Jesus, “Where else will we go since You hold the word of LIFE”.

All That Matters by Colton Dixon – not sure if he ever puts out a bad song.

Love With Your Life by Hollyn – wow – what a voice!  An amazing young lady!  I’ve really been enjoying her music.

Bulletproof by Citizen Way – feel like going a little old school?  Sounds like something from the 70’s;)

When We Pray by Tauren Wells – often, I find myself talking to God when I am working out.  

Fearless by Jasmine Murray – my theme song for 2018!  

Warrior by Hannah Kerr – another ‘fight song’ for 2018!

What songs would you add to my list?  Which one from my list would you like to add to yours?

I hope these songs encourage and inspire your workout!

Are you looking for some songs to inspire you in your workout? Songs that will help get you moving both physically and spiritually? Here are over 22 Awesome Christian Songs For The Epic Workout Playlist. Updated from 2017!

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5 Important Things To Remember Before You Hit The Gym

My heart filled with dread.  It was measuring day today.  I loathed the idea of stepping onto that evil scale.  And the thought of having that measuring tape remain at the exact same place around my arm and my abs filled my heart with discouragement.  So, do you know what I did?  I decided to forgo my measurements!  It was so freeing to stop fretting about my measurements and just focus on my workout and the positive results I was getting.  So, if you are feeling discouraged by your lack of progress at the gym, I want to share with you these 5 Important Things To Remember Before You Hit The Gym.

If you are feeling discouraged about your exercise program, you might find these 5 Important Things To Remember Before You Hit The Gym helpful.

Find What You Love

I think this is one of the biggest factors that will contribute to any exercise regimen.  If you love it, you will stick with it.  If you hate it, it will just be a matter of time before you quit.  You might even start believing that all exercise is painful and a nightmare.  

This is where I am at with the leg press!  Crazy, hey?  210 lbs of STRENGTH!

This is where I am at with the leg press! Crazy, hey? 210 lbs of STRENGTH!

Some people love to run.  I know, it doesn’t make sense to me either;)  I don’t like it one bit.  I get shin splints like crazy.  I bought expensive running shoes that were supposed to help.  They didn’t, so I bought another brand.  No success.  I gave up.  Running is NOT for me.  But there are many people out there who don’t have the same issues I have with running (shin splints, pain in my knees) and they live for it.  

I love the challenge of weights.  The feeling I get when I move the weights up one more notch makes me feel STRONG.  But not everyone likes weights.  If you don’t find something else.

For several years, I attended a weekly adult jazz dance class.  It was so much fun…AND…I got to dance on stage for the year-end recital.  What a great chance for this introvert to SHINE!  

1 Corinthians 10-31Maybe you enjoy exercise videos at home.  Do that.  Or perhaps you enjoy hikes or walks in nature.  Commit to continuing on with that form of exercise.  

Whatever it is that you find to do, you will find so much more fulfillment and additional benefits if you enjoy it.  

Find that sweet spot and run with it…either literally or metaphorically depending upon how you feel about running;)

Skip The Scale

When I joined this new ladies gym in January, I requested a training session with a trainer.  One of the first things she said to me was, “Your scale is mine”.  She was intending for me to become obsessed with stepping on the scale every day – or even weekly – for the first couple of months.  The scale is not the single most important indicator of success at the gym.  

Believe me, I know.  How many times have I stepped on that scale only to see the number increase.  It is discouraging!

One thing we need to keep in mind when we are exercising is that we are building muscle and one pound of muscle is a whole lot smaller than one pound of fat!  So, while that scale might not be going down, that doesn’t mean that you aren’t getting rid of fat.  It is likely that you are replacing fat for muscle – pound for pound.  If you don’t believe me, simply google “one pound fat one pound muscle” – and you’ll see.  

So, stay off that scale!  If you have to, bury it under some boxes deep inside your closet so it is difficult to get out.

How Do Your Clothes Fit?

After about 5 weeks of my new fitness routine, I noticed that my bra wasn’t fitting properly.  At first, I thought that it was just too old and the elasticity was shot.  But then I realized the truth.  The band was too big!  Then I started noticing other articles of clothing and how they were fitting.  Some were looser and some were just too big now!  And just so you know…the number on the scale did not budge.  At least not yet.

Be aware of how your clothes are fitting.  This is a fantastic indicator of fat loss.  Share this progress with a friend and celebrate.  It is a wonderful achievement!

Physical Fitness And Beyond!

1 Corinthians 6-19I had just finished several report cards in one day.  My brain felt ‘full’ and tired.  At first, I did not want to head to the gym because my head hurt from the work I had accomplished that day.  However, I decided to go anyway…I wondered if exercise would help me feel better.  

I went, completed my routine and walked out the gym feeling lighter and more relaxed.  It worked!

I also look at the long-term effects on how I feel.  Exercise is so good for helping feelings of depression.  Years ago, when I joined this other ladies gym in my previous town, that was one of the main reasons.  I was struggling with depression and I had heard that exercise helps.  My exercise was a great supplement for the healing work Jesus was doing in my life at that time.   

There have also been times when I have gone to the gym while angry.  WHOO!  What a workout that always is!  And I generally feel better afterward. 

Our entire body is the temple of God and it is our responsibility to do what we can to care for it.  Therefore, if you feel better emotionally and mentally through regular exercise, that alone is worth sticking with your commitment.   

Most Importantly…

There is one dynamic of successful exercise that is often overlooked – or not even thought of by most.  That is prayer.  I pray for my exercise regularly.  I pray that God will bless this time that I spend taking care of my body and that He will help me to be physically fit.  I pray that I will enjoy my time at the gym and the results I see will glorify Him.

Try praying for your exercise time.  Praying while working out is even better!! 

Next week, I will share my EPIC playlist for an awesome workout!

If you are feeling discouraged about your exercise program, you might find these 5 Important Things To Remember Before You Hit The Gym helpful.

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How Health Is Bringing My Bodacious Back

Change…not a word many people like.  But it was something I knew I needed to do.  I felt apprehensive about change.  Who doesn’t?  However, the weight had inched its way on my body and I knew it would be a huge struggle in getting it off!  If I didn’t take action NOW, I knew it was just going to get worse.  So, I put my ‘big girl panties’ on and did what had to be done.  I got a membership to the local ladies gym.  Over the next several months, I’ve had some amazing results from the small changes I have made.  I want to share these changes with you over the next few weeks in hopes to encourage and inspire you to make whatever changes necessary in order for you to improve your health.  Here is How Health Is Bringing My Bodacious Back .

Getting healthy doesn't mean a complete overhaul of your lifestyle. Here is How Health Is Bringing My Bodacious Back without major changes. Christian health habits.

The Low Down

I am not a ‘health nut’.  Gluten-free, dairy-free or vegan (oh, those poor plants!) diets are not my style.  Counting calories, eating low-taste diet foods and weighing portions is not going to work in my family.  

Bac’n Puffs is still a weekly snack for me – no shame!  Home-made donuts were on the menu a couple of weeks ago…and I ate them – without guilt!   Read More

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